Don’t Be Afraid of Feedback

I have been attending my local writing group at the library for years. It’s open to anyone, which at times means we are not always on the same page. Writing groups, like anything else, have quirky dynamics and this can turn any writer off to wanting to share our work. That doesn’t mean it isn’t important. So I keep going, despite not always wanting to hear what others have to say. I know I can’t write in a bubble. I write to share stories, but the most nerve racking part of the process is putting my writing out to others. What will they think? Will they like it? Am I any good? While all of these questions matter, what really matters is how I interpret their critique. I listen, I take notes, I try not to agree, disagree or explain. I remind myself it is a process in which I will become a better writer if I incorporate this part into my process.

There are many opinions on when to get feedback, and I suppose it depends on what kind of writing you do. Right now, I’m working on longer pieces of fiction so I have been submitting in parts. I believe it’s important to reflect on my work on a regular basis. I don’t need to be finished with a novel to have someone read it. I also might have different people look at my work for very specific reasons. Are they an expert on the topic I am writing about? Are they members of a book club that could give me feedback about how realistic or interesting my characters are? This type of information can be pivotal to my writing. In essence, seeking criticism at any step of the writing process helps me break free from the solitude of writing. When I ask for feedback, I am no longer working in the dark, unsure if I’ve grasped what I’m really trying to achieve.

So, don’t be afraid. Seek out like minded writers (or those who can push you) and be brave! It will only improve your writing.